Being merciful is not only to decorate special moments, but also to bring joy to everyday existence. To get unexpected praise, like a fresh breath, lifts the mood, and the compliment makes light in the heart brighter. However, you should be careful with the wrong compliments, as they can not only cause positive emotions, but also cause conflicts.
"The compliment that corresponds to the situation activates the production of happiness hormones," the psychologist explains. "A sophisticated compliment is like espresso: spontaneous, short and inspiring."
Interaction of neurons
Few people know that there is a special interaction between praise and those who express the compliment. Mirror neurons in the brain catch a positive mood of a person. Hearing the compliment, you start to feel better and form a positive idea of yourself. Regular compliments lead to a happy condition.
"Those who like to express pleasant words focus on positive points and put negative thoughts into the background," the doctor notes. "But you should be careful: if words are not clearly serious, praise can cause negative consequences."
Be sincere
Eyes, voice, posture - all these elements will tell the truth. People use internal "antennas" that distinguish between true compliments from flattery with hidden motifs.
According to the theory of interaction, compliments have a great effect on relationships. To improve relationships, a psychologist recommends a simple experiment: make three compliments a week daily. As a result, you will find new or restore forgotten qualities in everyday life.
