Probably, each of us felt a trouble when the person with whom we were friends or built a relationship suddenly disappeared without known reasons. This can cause sadness, especially if this person was important to us.
Why is this happening?
- Lack of communicative abilities: some people, without strong communication skills, will avoid direct communication and choose the path of silence, fearing misunderstandings.
- "Pull down": sometimes people are convinced that it is better for them to leave those who, in their opinion, "pull them down." In such cases, divorce can be a refreshing solution.
- Changing priorities: Choosing other important aspects of life, such as family or career, can sometimes lead to priority changes, and communicating with certain people may lose relevance.
How to cope:
- Rely on those who value you: focus on people who value you and your relationship.
- Dissolve without regret: if you feel that your person has decided to leave you, take it as a new stage in your life.
- Respect other people's elections: people can have their reasons to change the direction, and it is important to respect this election.
It is important to determine that it is not always necessary to be with those who do not want to stay close. Focus on relationships that bring joy and understanding.
