Finding an ideal life partner turns out to be a non-trivial task, since many people do not always understand themselves, which forms the basis of the iceberg of mutual understanding. Psychologist Oleksandr Tsurkan shares advice on finding a suitable partner.
The expert points out the importance of focusing on the relationship with oneself before looking for a partner that meets our expectations. "Learn to build a healthy relationship with yourself before you start interacting with your partner," the psychologist notes.
Oleksandr Tsurkan recommends that you first understand your own identity, the purpose of life and love yourself to the fullest. It is important to master the skills of independent living and invite a partner into this world. According to the psychologist, the chosen one reflects what already exists within us and becomes known through the choice.
"When a person understands himself, he understands others better, sees others, distinguishes what is allowed from what is forbidden and speaks openly about it, having clearly defined boundaries. Such people value and love themselves," emphasizes the psychologist.
Oleksandr Tsurkan urges those who seek to find an ideal partner to simplify their requirements and refrain from compromises that do not correspond to personal values. It is noted that entering into a relationship without understanding oneself can only harm the inner world and destroy what has been built over the years, if one's own foundation is not strengthened.
