The decision on the participation of children in funeral is determined by their age and a willingness to understand the situation. A young child is sometimes sufficient for a farewell ceremony, not necessarily at the funeral itself.
Psychology Anna Pokrovskaya notes that if the child does not understand the events, it may be better not to introduce it into this situation. On the other hand, if the child is more conscious and understandable, it is important to openly discuss the situation with it. Asking if she wants to take part in a farewell ceremony can be an important step in supporting the child in the process of farewell.
Before the funeral, according to the psychologist, it is important to explain to children what will happen, so that they do not feel fear. If the child refuses to participate in the funeral, it is important to respect her decision, especially in the situation of war, where children are already in difficult stress. The baby can only increase her injury.
