Ukrainian singer Zlata Ognevich is not often shared by personal experiences, but in one of the recent interviews, she openly told her views on motherhood and why he does not want to have children. In an interview with journalist Marichka Padalko, a 39-year-old artist shared deep emotions that formed her attitude to the birth of children.
Zlata announced that an important part of her decision not to have children is related to the family tragedy that happened before her birth. According to her, the singer's older brother died when he was only six years old - he drowned in his eyes in his mother in Kryvyi Rih. Although Zlata herself learned of this tragedy at a more conscious age, the atmosphere that prevailed in the family after this loss, as well as her mother's emotional state, had a deep influence on her consciousness and further views on life.
"I was not yet born. But all these injuries of the mother are subconsciously passed on to the baby. These conversations, which took place as a child, knew that there was some tragedy, but did not know what the tragedy happened," Zlata said.
The singer confesses that the idea of her own child, which can get into the same tragedy, causes it to be instant immediately to the idea of motherhood. She tells that when it comes to the birth of a baby, she immediately has a strong feeling of fear.
"I imagine that it can be my baby. I am - to give birth?
Zlata also noted that she considered the possibility of adopting the baby, but decided that it was not her path. She emphasized the importance of having a stable and healthy relationship between parents for the right upbringing of the baby.
"I also thought about it, but in my opinion, it should be done with a partner for two, because this child should have a father and mom. Of course, this child should have at least someone: either a father or a mom who will love him and bathe in this love. It is a luxury for children from the orphan."
Zlata also noted that because of her life rhythm and constant trips, she cannot give the child the love and care that every baby deserves. She believes that motherhood is a great responsibility that requires many strength, and it is difficult for her to combine it with her professional activity.
