Have you ever thought about how true friendship exists in your relationship with other people? It is sometimes difficult to distinguish genuine feelings from pretending. Psychologist Aimi Daramus shares useful tips on how to recognize counterfeit friends.
- They take, but do not give real friendship - it is a mutual exchange of support and division of joys and failures. Fake friends only turn when they need something and are not interested in your needs.
- There are no inaccessibility and indifference in important times in difficult times - key signs of a fake friend. True friendship is manifested in the fact that a friend remains nearby even in the most difficult times.
- They promise, but they do not fulfill trust and reliability are the basis of true friendship. If friends regularly break their promises, it can signal their insincerity.
- are often spreading a negative atmosphere and looking for flaws in any situation. True friends support and create a positive environment.
- gossip can be a sign that your friend can tell you about you. This indicates a lack of respect for personal life.
- They compete, not supporting friendship competitions, can do more harm than good. True friends inspire and support, and fake compete.
- The borders in a healthy friendship do not respect the respect for personal borders. If your boundaries are ignored, it may indicate insincerity.
- They depress you fake friends often try to humiliate you and cause negative emotions using jealousy or competition.
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Do not rejoice in your success The lack of joy for your achievements is a clear sign of fake friendship. True friends feel joy rather than envy of your success.
